About How Far To Go In Letting The "Other Than Conscious" Control Things
A reader Question:
“I read the first portions of your book, regarding watching the ball and breathing. The watching part is helping me, as I need to relearn this, and your Core statements 1 & 2 are a big help (I'm seeing spin sometimes for the first time). The breathing is all new to me and will start practicing this before I go further in the book.
I do have a question however, about how far to go in letting the "other than conscious" control things. I thought that this part of the mind was to be given a goal by the conscious mind, then let go and busy the conscious mind with watching the ball.
Do you advocate letting the other than conscious mind completely decide where and how the ball will be hit?
And my answer is:
How far do you let the other than conscious mind decide where and how you hit the ball is a terrific question and, unfortunately my answer may be a little fuzzy.
The best way to discuss this, I believe, is to use driving as an example. Usually, you have a destination in mind when you get into your car and you need to have in your mind the route you need to go in order to get to this destination. In tennis, as an example, let’s use hitting the ball to the backhand as your destination or goal for this discussion.
While you are driving, your conscious mind needs to be aware of where you are, what streets you need to turn on, the other cars on the road, and be ready to slow down, speed up, turn etc as needed. In tennis, you will need to see if you are actually hitting the ball to the backhand side. But when you do this you are letting your other than conscious mind actually execute these movements hopefully without thinking.
Now, there are times when you don’t really need to pay much attention to where you are and what is going around you. This happens when you are driving on a long trip and your car is on cruise control and you are just pretty much sitting and sightseeing. This would be considered “zoning out” or “going on autopilot” which is extremely dangerous while driving a vehicle, although it works well for tennis. You are in a trance and your conscious mind is just not very active. It will know, however, when you need to turn (hit the ball to a particular place). Your other than conscious mind will be paying attention and will direct your body accordingly. This part of your mind is seeing where you are and will “wake up” the conscious mind, if needed.
Here is what I do on the court and, to be honest, I don’t know that I can describe exactly what all this feels like. I am also still learning and experimenting how the relationship between the conscious mind and the other than conscious mind works so that I can play to the best of my ability. I do know that it is not always really obvious as to who (meaning my conscious mind and my other than conscious mind) is doing what and I believe that everyone needs to discover for themselves how this relationship works for them. That being said, getting to what I have called “the foundational place” is an important step in discovering this relationship.
Bear with me as I think I am finally getting to a “real” answer to your question.
When I begin playing, I start with a strategy that I believe will get me to where I want to go. I use my core principles as the vehicle to execute this strategy. However, many times my conscious mind just does not want to let go. It wants to control things and to be able to recognize what is going on can become very subtle. I may think that I am letting my other than conscious mind control hitting the ball, but I am really not.
How do I know this? I know this when I start choking or when I start missing balls that under normal circumstances I don’t miss. So, especially when I get behind in the score (sometimes even before this), I truly attempt to get my conscious mind out of the picture and I do this by letting go of “any” strategy or thought of what I am doing and relaxing my body more and just doing the core principles. I attempt to completely turn over my play to my other than conscious mind. I do this by visualizing what you want to happen and then letting go of a conscious strategy. In other words, I try to get to my foundational place.
What then begins to happen is that my conscious mind gets back into its proper function and just acts an observer and this is where I am aware of the thoughts (directions) that the other than conscious mind gives to my body as to how and where to hit the ball and not the other way around.
Once I am in this state, I do find that I am playing at my very best so, for me, I do want to “completely” turn over all control to my other than conscious mind. Going back to the driving analogy, your other than conscious mind will wake up your conscious mind if, for example, a change of strategy is needed.
I feel like I really can’t describe to others how this really works. I just know that, for me, this is what I do. You, and everyone else, will have to figure it out, but when you do the core principles and when you work on getting to “the foundation place” you will begin to discover how it works and feels for you.
Are you sorry now that you asked? Have I really messed with your mind? I think a whole book could be written about this. OH, I forgot. There was one and it was called “The Inner Game of Tennis” by Tim Gallwey. He explains all this so much better but now you know my puny explanation and how I “try” to play.
So to answer your specific question “Do you advocate letting the other than conscious mind completely decide where and how the ball will be hit?” my answer would be yes.